**** my comments may spoil the movie for you.******
First, let me out line the movie and then I'll share my thoughts.
The two main characters of the story are Amir, a well-to-do Afghan boy from the dominant Pushtun ethnic group, and Hassan, the son of Amir's father's servant Ali, who belongs to the historically downtrodden Hazara minority. The boys spend their days in a beautiful and peaceful Kabul, kite fighting, roaming the streets and being boys. Amir's father, Baba, loves both the boys, but seems often to favor Hassan for being more manly. He is critical of Amir. Amir's mother died in childbirth, and Amir fears his father blames him for his mother's death. However, he has a kind father figure in the form of Rahim Khan, Baba's friend, who understands Amir better, and is supportive of his interest in writing stories.
The conflict:
A notoriously violent older boy with Nazi sympathies, Assef, blames Amir for socializing with a Hazara, who he claims is an inferior race should only live in Hazarajat. He prepares to attack Amir with his brass knuckles, but Hassan bravely stands up to him, threatening to shoot Assef in the eye with his slingshot. Assef and his henchmen back off, but Assef says he will take revenge.
The revenge occurs on Amirs' triumphant day, Amir wins the local tournament, and finally Baba's praise. Hassan is the "kite runner" for Amir: he runs to fetch kites Amir has defeated by cutting their strings. Hassan goes to run the last cut kite (a great trophy) for Amir, saying "For you, a thousand times over." Unfortunately, Hassan runs into Assef and his two henchmen. Hassan refuses to give up Amir's kite, so Assef exacts his revenge, assaulting and anally raping him. Wondering why Hassan is taking so long, Amir searches for Hassan and hides when he hears Assef's voice. Amir witnesses what happens to Hassan but is too scared to help him. Afterwards, for some time Hassan and Amir keep a distance from each other. When Hassan wants to pick up their friendship again, Amir still feels his own shame, and is frustration. My guess is Amir fears Baba loves Hassan more, and would love him less if he knew what happened and about Amir's cowardly in action.To force Hassan to leave, Amir frames him as a thief, and Hassan falsely confesses. Hassan's departure frees Amir of the daily reminder of his cowardice and betrayal, but he still lives in their shadow.
I questioned even the what the ifs' Amir had been able to find the courage to try to help Hassan, and I found both boys could have been raped by Assef and the two henchmen . Amir and Hassen were younger children and even knowing right from wrong does not preclude a child being able to know how to react in situation of violence. Still, Amir did not go for help either.
A short time later, the Soviets invade Afghanistan. Amir and Baba escape to Peshawar, Pakistan and then to Fremont, California, where Amir and Baba (who lived in luxury in an expensive mansion in Afghanistan) settle in a run-down apartment and Baba begins work at a gas station. And Amir and hs father begin to grow closer.Every Sunday, Baba and Amir make extra money selling used goods at a flea market in San Jose. There, Amir meets Soraya Taheri and her family; Soraya's father is contemptuous of Amir's literary aspiration. Baba has lung cancer but is still able to do Amir a great favor: he asks Soraya's father to grant permission for Amir to marry her. He agrees and the two marry. Shortly thereafter Baba dies. Amir and Soraya learn that they cannot have children.
Amir embarks on a successful career as a novelist. Years later, Amir receives a call from Rahim Khan, who we learn later in the movie is dying from an illness. Rahim Khan asks Amir to come to Pakistan. He enigmatically tells Amir "there is a way to be good again". Amir arrives in a war Baron torn Pakistan.
From Rahim Khan, Amir learns the fates of Ali and Hassan. Ali was killed by a land mine. Hassan had a wife and a son, named Sohrab, and had returned to Baba's house as a caretaker at Rahim Khan's request. One day the Taliban ordered him to give it up and leave, but he refused, and was murdered, along with his wife. And the secret truth about Hassan is that Ali was not his father. Hassan is the son of Baba, and thus Amir's half-brother. Finally, Rahim Khan reveals that the true reason he has called Amir to Pakistan is to go to Kabul to rescue Hassan's son, Sohrab, from an orphanage.
Amir returns to Taliban-controlled Kabul with a guide, Farid, together they find the orphanage basent of Sohrab The director of the orphanage tells them that a Taliban official has recently taken the boy. Amir finds the Taliban official is actually his childhood nemesis Assef. Sohrab has also been abused at the hands of Assef. So Assef agrees to relinquish Sohrab, but only if Amir can beat him in a fight to death, with Sohrab as the prize. Assef brutally beats Amir, but Amir is saved when Sohrab uses his slingshot to shoot out Assef's left eye, fulfilling the threat his father had made years before.
Sohrab has been sexually assaulted. (Sohrab later tells Amir : "I'm so dirty and full of sin. The bad man and the others did things to me").
Amir tells Sohrab of his plans to take him back to America and promises that he will never be sent to an orphanage again. Sohrab is emotionally damaged, but begins to open up when Amir shows off some of Hassan's tricks, and Sohrab begins to interact with Amir again. In the end Sohrab only shows a lopsided smile, but Amir takes to it with all his heart as he runs the kite for Sohrab, saying, "For you, a thousand times over." when Amir reminisces about his father, Hassan, while kite flying. This is an echo of the last words spoken to Amir by Hassan before the rape, and signifies the sense of atonement that permeates the movie.
The movie as a whole is done well. It could have better time lines. if you don't know when the Russians invaded Pakistan the timeline will elude you. The movie showed both the beauty of Kabal and later the destruction of it. The kite flying scenes were like a ballet. I encourage anyone to watch it for youself.
last thoughts
There is no act more wretched than stealing". BaBa said at the beginning of the movie,but the very person who said these words stole. Baba, stole. Baba stole Hassan and Amir's brotherhood and since of family. Because he was silent. He stole courage from his son Amir by not teaching him sometimes a person must fight. Baba stole Amirs' voice by not accepting Amir, and for not reassuring Amir his mothers' death was not his fault. Thus, Hassan and Amir stole with their silences, their ablitiy to face the painful event head one. There was no way to they could not heal, nor move on. As children they did not have the tools, the love nor the support, adult guildness could have provided. As men, can we say that Hassan ever dealt with his rape? We know Amir just wanted to leave it behind him.Baba stole from himself too, he never got to meet his grandson. And horribl,y Baba stole Sohrabs's innocence. No child should ever utter the words : "I'm so dirty and full of sin. The bad man and the other two did things to me").
T. Portlock